The following is a portion of a blog posted by “CJ” on Harvard Health Publications website a few years ago. It’s still relevant today…..

As I write this, a dull headache presses into the space above my left eye. The same headache visited me yesterday, and the day before that. In fact, for most of the last year, I’ve had a headache everyday, all day. Though now it’s manageable – I can write with it, after all – for the previous twelve months, my headaches took over my life. They were all I thought about. They became who I was.

I’ve always gotten more headaches than the average person – the mild, treat-with-an-over-the counter-pain-medication-and they’ll-go-away type. But following a drawn-out viral infection that left me sneezing and feeling run down for weeks, I started to get headaches every day, and they were more painful than usual. A few months later, on top of those daily headaches, I developed occipital neuralgia, a distinct type of headache that causes electric-shock-like pain in the upper neck and behind the ears. Eventually, I became extremely sensitive to light. At that point my doctor suspected my condition had transformed into a daily migraine (with a side order of occipital neuralgia).

As the pain varied, so did my moods and reactions to it. When the pain was at its worst, I felt like I would go crazy if I had to deal with it for one more minute. I spent most of one particularly bad month in bed, crying. I worried that I would never get better. I couldn’t think straight, let alone do any of the things I loved, like gardening or hiking with my husband and our dog. I also cut my hours at work. As a result of all these changes, I lost my sense of self – by far the scariest part of being sick. In those darkest moments, staring at my dog helped. It was as if she, who didn’t need me to say anything or be anyone in particular, could accept this broken-down me even when I couldn’t.

I’m finally starting to experience some relief. I’m on a medley of medications, the side effect of which has mostly been severe fatigue. But as annoying as it is to be falling asleep by 9 p.m., I’ll trade that for constant migraines – hands down. Aside from talking to my dog, a few other things helped me cope. If you’re dealing with chronic headaches or persistent pain of any sort, maybe they’ll help you too:

*  Find the right doctor. It was then that my headaches started to get better.

*  Have someone to talk to. I was able to talk to my husband about what I was going through. If I hadn’t had him to talk with, I probably would’ve turned to a support group, either in person or online.

*  Lighten your load. My husband took over just about all our household duties. As I mentioned, I worked part-time during the worst of times. This can be difficult psychologically, but it can also be necessary.

* Keep your mind occupied. While I lay in bed, I found podcasts, and books on tape to keep me entertained. I also got a tai chi DVD to help me move around a little when I got sick of lying down.

At this point, I experience stretches of time when I don’t have a headache. They feel like miracles. And even when I do have a headache, it’s usually a minor, manageable one. Now that I feel that the treatment is working – and that I’ve found a doctor who is helping me – I’m able to sustain hope that my headache-free times will expand, until eventually they take over whole days, then weeks, then months, then…….

Harvard Health Publications    March  2011

 

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